Senin, 24 Agustus 2015

Interpersonal Communication: Accusing, Blaming & Admitting Mistakes and Expressing Promise

INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION

In interpersonal conversation we often exprience many kinds of situation. Making mistake is one of the examples. When we make a mistake, sometimes we fell difficult to confess it. It's good thing if we want to admit our mistake. The following are expresions of accusing, blaming and admiting. 


1.       Accusing

·         It must have been you who did it
(pastilah Kamu yang telah melakukannya)

·         I think you're the only person who could have done it
(saya kira hanya kamulah satu-satunya orang yang bisa mekakukannya)

·         You must be doing something wrong


·         You must be the doer

2.       Blaming

·         It was your fault


·         You are the one to blame


·         Serves you right


Someone who accused of blamed usually declines it. The following are the responses used



·         It's not true


·         It wasn't me


·         You are wrong, I didn't do it


·         I am not the one to blame



3.       Admiting Mistake

When we did something wrong, it's better for us to admit or confess our mistake. We can use the following expressions.

·         I have to admit that ...

·         I was the one to blame

I admit I was wrong

·         I havd made a mistake

we can also use the expressions of apology, for example, I am sorry, forgive me!. To respond it, we can use :


·         Okay, just don't do it again


·         It's alright

Promise


from English Grammar Today

Promise is a noun and a verb.
A promise is something that you say you will definitely do:
I’ll be here for your birthday. That’s a promise!
We often use the verb make with promise:
Beth made a promise to Owen that she would look after his dog whenever he was away. Now she regrets it.
We can use the verb promise to say that we will definitely do something. We use it with a clause with will, would or with a to-infinitive. It is sometimes followed by that:
I promise I’ll buy you another one.
Not: I promise I buy you another one.
I promise never to tell him.
The builder promised that he would be here on Tuesday.
We can use the modal verb will to make promises:
I’ll always remember you.
We’ll send you the contract tomorrow.


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